Is Hustle Culture Getting in the Way of Love?

How do you make space for both your career and your romantic relationships? It’s not about choosing one or the other. It’s about learning how to juggle both in a way that actually works for you.</p><br />If you enjoyed this episode, leave a review and make sure you SUBSCRIBE!</p><br />Ratemypod: https://ratethispodcast.com/highvaluedating</p><br />You can LISTEN or WATCH my podcast here: <a href="https://link.chtbl.com/highvaluedating" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://link.chtbl.com/highvaluedating</a></p><br />If you are interested in advertising on this podcast email ussales@acast.com</p><br />To request Nelly to be on your Podcast, Radio Show, or TV Show, reach out to talent@pionairepodcasting.com</p><br />Follow Nelly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ask.nelly/</p><br />Follow Nelly on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@ask.nelly?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.tiktok.com/@ask.nelly?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc</a></p><hr /><p style="color: grey; font-size: 0.75em;"> Hosted on Acast. See <a href="https://acast.com/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer" style="color: grey;" target="_blank">acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>

00:25:25

Still Single? Dating Mindsets That Are Sabotaging You

Your dating wishlist might be the reason why you're still single. We’re exposing the mindsets that are actually keeping love out. Let’s talk non-negotiables, unrealistic standards, and the quiet ways you're self-sabotaging. </p><br />If you enjoyed this episode, leave a review and make sure you SUBSCRIBE!</p><br />Ratemypod: https://ratethispodcast.com/highvaluedating</p><br />You can LISTEN or WATCH my podcast here: <a href="https://link.chtbl.com/highvaluedating" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://link.chtbl.com/highvaluedating</a></p><br />If you are interested in advertising on this podcast email ussales@acast.com</p><br />To request Nelly to be on your Podcast, Radio Show, or TV Show, reach out to talent@pionairepodcasting.com</p><br />Follow Nelly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ask.nelly/</p><br />Follow Nelly on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@ask.nelly?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.tiktok.com/@ask.nelly?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc</a></p><br /></p><hr /><p style="color: grey; font-size: 0.75em;"> Hosted on Acast. See <a href="https://acast.com/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer" style="color: grey;" target="_blank">acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>

00:33:00

How to Master Your Energy When Things Don't Go Your Way

Ever notice how your energy changes around someone you like? In this episode, we’re breaking down how to take control of that energy, shift your mindset, and attract the right people by fully owning your worth—even when things don’t go as planned.</p><br />If you enjoyed this episode, leave a review and make sure you SUBSCRIBE!</p><br />Ratemypod: https://ratethispodcast.com/highvaluedating</p><br />You can LISTEN or WATCH my podcast here: <a href="https://link.chtbl.com/highvaluedating" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://link.chtbl.com/highvaluedating</a></p><br />If you are interested in advertising on this podcast email ussales@acast.com</p><br />To request Nelly to be on your Podcast, Radio Show, or TV Show, reach out to talent@pionairepodcasting.com</p><br />Follow Nelly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ask.nelly/</p><br />Follow Nelly on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@ask.nelly?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.tiktok.com/@ask.nelly?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc</a></p><br />CHAPTERS</p>00:00 - Introduction to High Value Dating</p>00:03 - Challenges of Dating</p>02:18 - Strategies for Meeting Compatible Partners</p>07:32 - Making a Great First Impression</p>08:17 - Overcoming Nervousness in Social Situations</p>11:49 - Self-Concept and Confidence</p>14:24 - Navigating Relationships and Timelines</p>21:15 - Dealing with Rejection and Emotional Resilience</p>26:56 - Conclusion and Call to Action</p><hr /><p style="color: grey; font-size: 0.75em;"> Hosted on Acast. See <a href="https://acast.com/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer" style="color: grey;" target="_blank">acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>

00:28:36

How Celibacy Can Empower Your Dating Life

In a world dominated by hookup culture, celibacy can be a powerful choice that strengthens your sense of self-worth and helps you set clear boundaries. This episode explores how waiting for the right person can transform your dating life and lead to more meaningful connections.</p><br /><br /></p>If you enjoyed this episode, leave a review and make sure you SUBSCRIBE!</p><br />Ratemypod: https://ratethispodcast.com/highvaluedating</p><br />You can LISTEN or WATCH my podcast here: <a href="https://link.chtbl.com/highvaluedating" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://link.chtbl.com/highvaluedating</a></p><br />If you are interested in advertising on this podcast email ussales@acast.com</p><br />To request Nelly to be on your Podcast, Radio Show, or TV Show, reach out to talent@pionairepodcasting.com</p><br />Follow Nelly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ask.nelly/</p><br />Follow Nelly on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@ask.nelly?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.tiktok.com/@ask.nelly?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc</a></p><br />CHAPTERS</p>00:00 - Introduction to High Value Dating</p>01:01 - The Role of Sex in Dating</p>04:24 - Perspectives on Celibacy and Sexual Needs</p>09:20 - Risks and Realities of Casual Sex</p>19:00 - Cultural Commentary on Sexualization</p>24:36 - Critique of OnlyFans and Modern Sexual Norms</p>37:55 - Conclusion and Call to Action</p><hr /><p style="color: grey; font-size: 0.75em;"> Hosted on Acast. See <a href="https://acast.com/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer" style="color: grey;" target="_blank">acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>

00:38:43

Truth About Attraction

We say we want one thing but chase the opposite. In this episode of High Value Dating, Nelly breaks down why attraction doesn’t always follow logic—and how to actually get what and who you want.</p><br />If you enjoyed this episode, leave a review and make sure you SUBSCRIBE!</p><br />Ratemypod: https://ratethispodcast.com/highvaluedating</p><br />You can LISTEN or WATCH my podcast here: <a href="https://link.chtbl.com/highvaluedating" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://link.chtbl.com/highvaluedating</a></p><br />If you are interested in advertising on this podcast email ussales@acast.com</p><br />To request Nelly to be on your Podcast, Radio Show, or TV Show, reach out to talent@pionairepodcasting.com</p><br />Follow Nelly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ask.nelly/</p><br />Follow Nelly on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@ask.nelly?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.tiktok.com/@ask.nelly?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc</a></p><br />CHAPTERS</p>00:00 - Introduction to High Value Dating</p>00:03 - Frustrations in Dating</p>00:59 - Understanding Attraction</p>02:22 - Cultural Norms and Personal Reflection</p>08:43 - The Challenge of Desirability</p>10:27 - The Importance of Self-Improvement</p>17:56 - Navigating Relationships and Expectations</p>36:57 - Conclusion and Call to Action</p><br /><br /></p><hr /><p style="color: grey; font-size: 0.75em;"> Hosted on Acast. See <a href="https://acast.com/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer" style="color: grey;" target="_blank">acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>

00:37:29

Let Go of Expectations & Start Choosing Yourself

Are you setting yourself up for disappointment with unrealistically high expectations? In this episode, we’re talking about how to handle rejection, shift your perspective, and turn setbacks into redirection. Listen up as we break down the mindset shifts that help you let go, move forward, and start choosing you!</p><br /><br /></p>If you enjoyed this episode, leave a review and make sure you SUBSCRIBE!</p><br />Ratemypod: https://ratethispodcast.com/highvaluedating</p><br />You can LISTEN or WATCH my podcast here: <a href="https://link.chtbl.com/highvaluedating" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://link.chtbl.com/highvaluedating</a></p><br />If you are interested in advertising on this podcast email ussales@acast.com</p><br />To request Nelly to be on your Podcast, Radio Show, or TV Show, reach out to talent@pionairepodcasting.com</p><br />Follow Nelly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ask.nelly/</p><br />Follow Nelly on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@ask.nelly?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.tiktok.com/@ask.nelly?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc</a></p><br />CHAPTERS</p>00:00 - Introduction to High Value Dating</p>01:00 - The Challenge of Dating</p>09:26 - Understanding Rejection</p>10:51 - Shifting Mindsets</p>20:21 - Self-Love and Value</p>24:48 - Conclusion and Encouragement</p><br /></p><hr /><p style="color: grey; font-size: 0.75em;"> Hosted on Acast. See <a href="https://acast.com/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer" style="color: grey;" target="_blank">acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>

00:26:40

How to Spot When Someone Is Love Bombing You?

Is it too good to be true? You might be getting love bombed! It can feel nice at first, but it’s important to tread lightly. While it’s not always a red flag, in this episode, we’ll walk you through the signs and what to watch out for!</p><br />If you enjoyed this episode, leave a review and make sure you SUBSCRIBE!</p><br />Ratemypod: https://ratethispodcast.com/highvaluedating</p><br />You can LISTEN or WATCH my podcast here: <a href="https://link.chtbl.com/highvaluedating" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://link.chtbl.com/highvaluedating</a></p><br />If you are interested in advertising on this podcast email ussales@acast.com</p><br />To request Nelly to be on your Podcast, Radio Show, or TV Show, reach out to talent@pionairepodcasting.com</p><br />Follow Nelly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ask.nelly/</p><br />Follow Nelly on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@ask.nelly?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.tiktok.com/@ask.nelly?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc</a></p><br />CHAPTERS</p>00:00 - Introduction to Love Bombing</p>01:24 - Understanding Love Bombing</p>08:29 - Caution with Love Bombing</p>09:10 - Identifying Love Bombing</p>14:28 - Navigating Relationships</p>20:07 - Self-Worth and Independence</p>25:41 - Conclusion and Call to Action</p><hr /><p style="color: grey; font-size: 0.75em;"> Hosted on Acast. See <a href="https://acast.com/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer" style="color: grey;" target="_blank">acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>

00:26:22

Getting Everything You Want WITHOUT the Chase

Today we’re breaking down the secret to getting what you want—whether it’s in relationships, career, or life without coming off as too eager. Learn how to shift your mindset, embody confidence, and let things flow naturally in your favor. Sometimes, less really is more.</p><br />If you enjoyed this episode, leave a review and make sure you SUBSCRIBE!</p><br />Ratemypod: https://ratethispodcast.com/highvaluedating</p><br />You can LISTEN or WATCH my podcast here: <a href="https://link.chtbl.com/highvaluedating" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://link.chtbl.com/highvaluedating</a></p><br />If you are interested in advertising on this podcast email ussales@acast.com</p><br />To request Nelly to be on your Podcast, Radio Show, or TV Show, reach out to talent@pionairepodcasting.com</p><br />Follow Nelly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ask.nelly/</p><br />Follow Nelly on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@ask.nelly?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.tiktok.com/@ask.nelly?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc</a></p><br />CHAPTERS</p>00:00 - Introduction to High Value Dating</p>01:06 - The Concept of Wanting Nothing</p>06:18 - Personal Experiences and Stories</p>12:38 - Balancing Wanting and Not Wanting</p>14:07 - Gratitude and Abundance Mindset</p>23:25 - The Importance of a Full Life</p>33:00 - Conclusion and Call to Action</p><hr /><p style="color: grey; font-size: 0.75em;"> Hosted on Acast. See <a href="https://acast.com/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer" style="color: grey;" target="_blank">acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>

00:33:57

Here’s Why Discomfort is NECESSARY for Growth

Nelly gets real about her own experiences with moving to a new place and the change that comes with it. If you’re feeling stuck or scared to take the next step, this conversation will remind you that discomfort isn’t the end—it’s where real transformation begins!</p><br />If you enjoyed this episode, leave a review and make sure you SUBSCRIBE!</p><br />Ratemypod: https://ratethispodcast.com/highvaluedating</p><br />You can LISTEN or WATCH my podcast here: <a href="https://link.chtbl.com/highvaluedating" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://link.chtbl.com/highvaluedating</a></p><br />If you are interested in advertising on this podcast email ussales@acast.com</p><br />Follow Nelly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ask.nelly/</p><br />Follow Nelly on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@ask.nelly?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.tiktok.com/@ask.nelly?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc</a></p><br />CHAPTERS </p>00:00 - Introduction to the Podcast</p>01:01 - Embracing Change</p>05:19 - Appreciating the Present</p>06:57 - Navigating Transitions</p>08:30 - Dating and Discomfort</p>11:22 - Taking Action in Dating</p>14:51 - Manifesting Your Desires</p>25:53 - Conclusion and Encouragement</p><br /></p><hr /><p style="color: grey; font-size: 0.75em;"> Hosted on Acast. See <a href="https://acast.com/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer" style="color: grey;" target="_blank">acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>

00:26:41

The KEY to Unlocking Your Dream Life: ACT AS IF

Are you still not stepping into your dream life? It might be because of THIS one reason....tune in.</p><br />If you enjoyed this episode, leave a review and make sure you SUBSCRIBE!</p><br />Ratemypod: https://ratethispodcast.com/highvaluedating</p><br />You can LISTEN or WATCH my podcast here: <a href="https://link.chtbl.com/highvaluedating" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://link.chtbl.com/highvaluedating</a></p><br />If you are interested in advertising on this podcast email ussales@acast.com</p><br />To request Nelly to be on your Podcast, Radio Show, or TV Show, reach out to ben@pionairepodcasting.com</p><br />Follow Nelly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ask.nelly/</p><br />Follow Nelly on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@ask.nelly?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.tiktok.com/@ask.nelly?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc</a></p><br />CHAPTERS</p>00:00 - Introduction </p>01:03 - Understanding the Concept of Acting "As If"</p>02:09 - Real-Life Examples of Acting "As If"</p>03:21 - Shifting Your Mindset in Dating</p>06:03 - Establishing New Habits</p>20:14 - Overcoming Challenges and Rejection</p>29:31 - Conclusion and Call to Action</p><hr /><p style="color: grey; font-size: 0.75em;"> Hosted on Acast. See <a href="https://acast.com/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer" style="color: grey;" target="_blank">acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>

00:30:13